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Sunday, March 23, 2008

Good Friday...

Salaams.....

Dear Bloggy, Its now Sunday, the last day of the long weekend. Its going to be a busy day for me today, and Im trying to fit my little boy in my schedule of places to go.

I have Kulia at Masjid this morning, maybe I can bring him and sit at the back. If he starts to make any unwanted noise, I'l get hubby to sit with him....

At 2pm , Im invited to a maulid at the Chisty household near Masjid Abdul Razak. Mum might go with me as she just loves attending Maulid.

At night, I hope to spend just some quality time with Little Habib and dear hubby at home, but I guess Hubby will be too engross in the soccer match... He's says its a big game at Old Trafford... entahlah, Im not much of a soccer fan, But I try to ask him about it once in a while to create some bond in our marriage life. Communication is very important. Men like it when their woman likes soccer... no ?

Masya'allah..it was a good Friday...
Good..literally. Me, mum and cousin Reh went to visit our Ustazah who has been sick for quite some time and has been through 2 eye operation.
We didnt want to go earlier as we thought Ustazah needs to rest...
Apparently Ustazah was waiting for her murids to come and she welcome us with open arms.
From this date, hundreds have visited her actually.....
Masya'allah, Im so glad we went to see her if not, how can I face her later on, when she's well..... she even knows us by our names!

Ustazah says :
When a visitor visits her, the visitor will bring Rahmat to her household.
When the visitors make doa for her to cepat sembuh, Allah (swt) will maqbul kan the doa.
When the visitor leaves the house, Allah ( swt ) wash away the visitors sins and also wash aways Ustazah's sins. Not forgetting it is very big pahala to visit the sick.....

From this lesson, I gather, its is good to announce to relatives and friends if one is really sick. Some people prefer to keep it to themselves kan... Of course if its normal flu, its a different story lah.
Anyway, it was really a blessing to visit Ustazah on that Friday. We got upclose and personal with her, discuss some topics with her, knew her background a little bit more and got some nasihat from her. Rite Reh, the last part when she tells us that Allah knows best.... hee ... I also got to meet u Reh!! bestnyer..hehe...

...... some people asked me a fews days back if Im ok, If I'm still sad over the episode, some even ask me why am I sad all the time... haha. Actually, Im really fine. Mestilah, when I go through any kind of cubaan, I am sad or in a low mood.. But I do bounce back cos Life just moves on right?.. I do have strong faith in Allah (swt) Insya'allah and with that, after every test, I just get stronger...Maybe I do appear sad in my blog cos I usually blog when Im sad or when Im in a tested state. But outside of my blog, I dont drag along the sadness much cos I dont want it to affect my hubby , son and family. Kata Orang2 Alim, the more we "suffer", the more Allah (swt) will bless us...

Satu-satu nya ciri orang beriman ialah, BERSYUKUR apabila senang, dan BERSABAR apabila sedang susah. This is called GRATITUDE and PATIENCE...
Thanks Ustazah for reminding me during our chat.

I was at Masjid Alkaff yesterday for the forum. It wasnt planned. We wanted to do Isyak, and since there was a forum, we stayed on. The pensyarah was Dr Ustaz Shariffah Hayati from Malaysia and our very own Ustaz Jalalludin Hasan. It was really an interesting , not to mention entertaining talk about happiness in marriage.

Both the pensyarahs stressed on staying romantic, communication, observing your spouse and making the effort to be interested in your spouse interest. They sighted many eg on Rasullulah (saw) marriage life with Saidatina Aishah which we as umats can follow.

I really want to list them down now, but I have laundry to hang lah. Maybe I'l write some time later... Well, after last night, me and hubby realised that its important to stay romantic.

Women loves surprises ! Takpelah if the flower is expensive and will die very soon, but the act of giving flowers can really make the relationship closer. Hint Hint... ahem. Anniversary coming very soon u know.... hur hur....

Oklah really gotta go... I still need some nap cos I was awake since 5.20 am... kepala pun dah bengal ni.... Got a full day ahead..and I can hear the washing maching calling me....
"Naz, mari sini, sidai baju.... "

hee3..... till then, Wasallam.

5 comments:

ummu nabil said...

I think in the near future we will have appliances with robotic voices calling to us! Hehe..

Kekadang kita takyah tunggu abang make romantic gestures, we can start the ball rolling by making overtures ourselves.. and then sit back and reap the rewards! *wiggles eyebrows* Ok, too much inuendos there :P

You can show that you like soccer by wearing his favourite team's jersey (and little else). Hurhurhur.. (are you laughing, babe? it's a joke hor.. but you can always try it. LOL..)

Ummi's BLOG said...

haha, my washing machine is my best friend tau..kan bagus if it can talk to me..yikes !

Wahahah.. yeah, I did laugh lah babe... Good idea though, kan malam anniversary coming, boleh lah try wear liverpool jersey and .... wahahaha....

( is it a tried and tested thing babe ? ) hur hur hur....

Okie we talk tonite..see ya at ngaji.

ummu nabil said...

Hehehe..

Yep, tried and tested. But necessarily with a soccer jersey. Hehe..

Me at in-laws' today, so I won't be meetin you guys for ngaji :( I do make-up lessons whenever I'm there, regardless what day, if my mother is free.

Anonymous said...

my hub pun liverpool fan.. satu hari we should gather for a liverpool game so they can watch, we can talk and the kids can play together.. hehe and yes i also loveeee flowers and will always hint for them.. evethhough dun get it with me and flowers alhamdulillah he gets the hint and buys them for me hehe.. and yes romance is really a must.. date night every week.. ;)

-id-

Ummi's BLOG said...

Ummu Nabil : oh yr not there eh ? hehe more ngaji time for me !! : ) (terok nyer kawan eh ) ..

id : hehe. yeah, i know..u and yr hub v romantic one.. my hub shd learn from your hubby lah. bab Romantic, dia ada susah sikit..more "practicle" than "surprises".